How to choose your first crystal pendulum: complete guide to choosing, using and connecting
Written by: Echipa Druzy
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Time to read 4 min
In the silent world of crystals, the pendulum occupies a special place. It is not just a beautiful object suspended by a chain, but a subtle tool of dialogue between soul and mind, between the present and intuition. The pendulum doesn't "know" more than you do — it just clearly reflects what you already feel.
If you're faced with choosing your first pendulum, you're already at a point of awakening. Below you will find a complete guide to help you choose wisely and use this sacred tool wisely.
1.🔮 What is a crystal pendulum and how does it work?
A pendulum is essentially a suspended object that moves freely according to the subtle energy around and inside you. When made of crystal, it becomes an extension of your energy field and an energetic work partner.
The pendulum can be used for:
obtaining intuitive answers (yes/no/unknown)
balancing and testing the chakras
dowsing (searching for energies, objects, geopathogenic points)
clarifying decisions and emotional blockages
connecting with spirit guides or higher self
2.💎 Which crystal should I choose for my first pendulum?
You don't need to know all the properties. Let yourself be guided by how you feel. Choose with your heart, not just with logic. Also keep in mind what concerns you at the moment – intuition, courage, protection?
Recommended crystals for the first pendulum:
Crystal
Key Properties
Clear quartz
neutral, clarifying, good for beginners
Amethyst
protection, spiritual connection, interior calm
Pink quartz
self -love, gentleness, emotional healing
Obsidian
protection, deep cleaning, interior truth
Tiger eyes
anchor, discernment, balance between heart and mind
fluorine
mental clarity, organization, lucid intuition
🌀 Listen: If a stone attracts your attention without logical reason, it is possible that it is exactly the right one.
3.📐 What form should the crystal pendulum have?
The form determines the way the energy flows through the pendulum:
Conical (with peak) - for clear and accurate answers
Spherical - radiates evenly; Suitable for auric scanning
Drop - gentle, intuitive, good for beginners
Crude crystal - natural energy, but moves harder to read
🎯 For beginners, the conical shape or drop are ideal.
4.⛓️ How do I choose the right chain and weight for the pendulum?
A comfortable pendul has:
chain of 15–25 cm, of neutral metal (stainless steel, silver)
average weight, for smooth movement
a round grip or crystal in the end (for stability)
💡 A pendulum too hard tired the hand, one too easy will have weak movements.
5. 🧘♀️ How do you connect correctly with your pendulum?
Ritual of initiation:
Hold the pendulum between the palms, quietly.
Inspire deeply. Feels the energy of the stone.
Say mentally:
"I choose you as a tool of clarity, truth and light. Thank you for guiding."
Ask him: "What is the movement for yes?", then "For no?", then "For the unknown?"
(The movements can be circular, before -back, left -right - each pendulum has its own language.)
6. ⚖️ The principle of neutrality: Be prepared to accept any answer
It is essential to practice conscious neutrality before each session with the pendulum.
If you ask, but "You hope" To a certain answer, it is possible that the pendulum reflects your desire, not the truth.
🔸 Speaks before each session: "I am prepared to receive both yes and no, without resistance."
This attitude opens you to an authentic response. Sometimes the pendulum tells you what is difficult to accept, but exactly what you need to hear.
7. 🧼 How do you clean and load the crystal pendulum?
Cleaning:
smoke of white sage, Palo Santo or natural incense
the light of the full moon
placement on a Drusa of amethyst or selenite plate
salt water (for hard crystals - not for selenite, malachite, etc.)
Energy load:
Solar or monthly Light Personal Intention: "I load you with the energy of clarity and truth."
8. 🧭 How do you use a crystal pend - exercises for beginners
Training exercises:
"My name is [your name]?"
"Is it today [the day of the week]?"
"Is this water good for me?"
Then:
"Is this crystal suitable for me today?"
"Is it beneficial to make this decision now?"
"Chakra X is blocked?"
🌀 If the pendulum does not respond clearly, ask otherwise or come back later. Sometimes your energy is not available.
9. ✨ Examples of questions you can ask the pendulum
Is it beneficial to take this step now?
Do I need more time for this decision?
Can I use amethyst for crown chakra?
Is my energy clean space?
Do I need to release an emotion related to the past?
10.🔚 CONCLUSION: The pendulum does not decide in your place - it just shows you the truth
Your first pendulum should not be perfect, but suitable for you now.
It does not have to be the most expensive, the largest, or the most beautiful - but the one who responds.
Don't forget: the pendulum doesn't tell you what to do. It shows you what you already know, but you may not have the courage to recognize.
🔮 "The answer is in you. The pendulum just reminds you how to listen to it."